Kelvin's Story
12/30/20243 min read


๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฏ๐ข๐ฏ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ฌ๐งโ๐ญ ๐๐ง๐จ๐ฎ๐ ๐กโ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐ก๐๐ฏ๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ก๐จ๐จ๐ฌ๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฏ๐.
In 2012, at the height of his thriving real estate career, 33-year-old Kelvin Leong suffered a stroke. โI never thought this would happen to me,โ he recalls. โOne moment, I was meeting a client; the next, I was paralysed in a hospital bed.โ On February 11, twelve years ago, Kelvin ignored early signs, such as dizziness and excessive perspiration, to keep the client appointment.
However, his colleague noticed something was amiss. โShe pinched my arm, and I couldnโt feel a thing. Thatโs when I knew something was wrong.โ Thankfully, the clientโs wife, a nurse, immediately called for help.
Diagnosed with a severe brain haemorrhage and stroke, Kelvin woke up to find himself paralysed on his left side. He spent 15 months working tirelessly to regain his independence, though he never fully recovered the use of his left arm.
๐๐ก๐ ๐๐ฎ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ ๐๐ก๐๐ญ ๐๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ค๐๐ ๐๐จ๐ฉ๐
The early days of recovery were tough, but as friends and even former clients visited, Kelvin realised his life had made a meaningful impact. "Paths that had long diverged came back to me," he reflected. "I hadnโt just lived a decent lifeโI had made connections." Despite the support, his confidence wavered.
When he first went to a coffee shop in a wheelchair, the stares made him uncomfortable. "I didnโt want to be seen like that," he admitted.
During those tough early days, Kelvin found strength in seeing his dad and uncle cry at his bedside. โSeeing those menโmy rockโbreak down, it flipped a switch in me,โ he said. โI realised I couldnโt give in to self-pity. I had to get better. I needed to be independent again.โ
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๐ข๐ง๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ง๐ฌ๐ฉ๐ข๐ซ๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐ข๐ง ๐๐ข๐๐ค ๐๐ฎ๐ฃ๐ข๐๐ข๐
A turning point came when Kelvin attended a church event in Singapore where Nick Vujicic, born without arms and legs, spoke about living life to the fullestโskydiving, swimming, and defying expectations. "Seeing him, I realised my challenges werenโt physical; they were about how others perceived me," Kelvin said.
"If he could do all that, surely I could smile back at people who stared at me." Embracing this new mindset, Kelvin returned to the coffee shop, no longer shying away from the stares. Instead, he smiled back. Slowly, those glances turned into conversations, and when he started walking again, the crowd cheered. "It made me feel like I wasnโt just recovering for myselfโI was showing others that recovery was possible, no matter how impossible it seemed."
๐๐๐ญ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐๐๐ฅ ๐๐ฌ๐ญ๐๐ญ๐ โ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ข๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ฎ๐๐๐๐ฌ๐ฌ ๐๐ง๐ ๐๐จ๐ง๐ง๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง
Returning to work was a pivotal step in Kelvinโs recovery. Initially, his mobility was unstable, but clients and co-broke agents were understanding and patient. As his physical abilities improved, he pushed beyond his limits. Joining OrangeTee, Kelvin focused on resale. Starting from ground zero, he rebuilt his career at his own pace and slowly started branching out.
But his goal was larger than personal success. โI want to build a team of stroke survivors,โ he said. โWe can do sales, pass our RES exams, and succeed, on our own time.โ While younger survivors were receptive, Kelvin noticed their hesitation to take action. "It's about showing them itโs possible, doing it together."
๐๐จ๐ข๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐๐๐ โ ๐๐ฎ๐ข๐ฅ๐๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ง๐ข๐ญ๐ฒ ๐จ๐ ๐๐๐ฌ๐ข๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ง๐๐
Kelvinโs renewed outlook on relationships led him to the Singapore National Stroke Association (SNSA). Invited by a fellow survivor, he saw the power of community in SNSAโs activities, which focus on rebuilding lives through arts, low-impact workouts, and outings. "Itโs where we rebuild confidence, find joy, and share our stories," Kelvin shared.
As the current vice president of SNSA, Kelvin found purpose, advocating for others facing similar struggles. "At SNSA, we understand what it means to lose everythingโand what it takes to get back up," he said, emphasising the importance of community in reclaiming life after a stroke.
๐๐๐ฏ๐ข๐๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐๐ฎ๐ซ๐ฏ๐ข๐ฏ๐จ๐ซ๐ฌ โ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ข๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ ๐๐ข๐๐ ๐๐๐ญ๐๐ซ ๐๐ญ๐ซ๐จ๐ค๐
Donโt just surviveโchoose to live, to be seen, and to be proud of how far youโve come.โ For Kelvin, the journey may be challenging, but he sees setbacks as opportunities to build resilience.
โIndependence means knowing when to reach out for help and finding your own path forward,โ he shares.
โYou can have $10,000 in the bank, but without your health, it means nothing. How many people get a second chance?โ Kelvin is living proof that there is life after a stroke. โWe donโt just survive a strokeโwe overcome it.โ
Kelvinโs inspiring outlook reminds us all that resilience and determination can lead to a truly fulfilling second chance at life.